Wednesday, June 3, 2026

A Buddhist Leader in Portland Is on Leave After Allegations of Sexual Misconduct





A Buddhist Leader in Portland Is on Leave After Allegations of Sexual Misconduct

A former student at Maitripa College says that for years, its leader used his position of power to obtain sex from her.

Maitripa College could be mistaken for just about any warehouse office in the Central Eastside, if not for the Tibetan prayer flags strung along the windows.

Founded in 2005, the college on Southeast Market Street is authorized by the state to grant degrees, including a Master of Arts in Applied Buddhism and a Master of Divinity. Yet the 14,592-square-foot building houses an institution of higher learning unlike any other in the state. It doubles as a religious center, and at its helm is a man whom the student body reveres as a spiritual master.

His name is Yangsi Rinpoche. The title “rinpoche”—it translates to “precious one”—is a rare honorific in Tibetan Buddhism, reserved for accomplished gurus or lama reincarnates. At age 6, Yangsi Rinpoche was deemed the reincarnate of Geshe Ngawang Gendun, a renowned Buddhist scholar.

Many practitioners at Maitripa took Yangsi Rinpoche as their guru: the person who would guide them closer to enlightenment. When he entered the building to host teachings, students and staff dropped to their knees. Participants jockeyed to serve him black tea. Others regularly brought him flowers or his favorite foods.

But last year, one former student and staffer alleged she had had a five-year sexual relationship with Yangsi Rinpoche from 2015 to 2021. During that time, she alleged, she found the sexual encounters unwanted, but they felt mandatory and expected due to his position of power at the college.

Her allegations are laid out in a draft civil complaint her attorney sent to the college and Yangsi Rinpoche in April 2025, a copy of which was provided to WW. The complaint was never filed, and the allegations never saw the inside of a courtroom. Last October, the parties settled for an undisclosed amount—meaning the woman’s allegations have never before been made public.

The woman’s name is Sunitha Bhaskaran, and this year she shared her story with WW.

“Taking care of students and not harming them is central to Yangsi Rinpoche’s [stated] mission,” Bhaskaran says. “And, in that sense. he has really failed as a spiritual teacher, without doubt.”

Bhaskaran’s account—which the college and Yangsi Rinpoche deny—paints a portrait of a spiritual guru who used his position to create an environment in which at least one person who saw him as a holy figure felt acceptance of his sexual advances was mandatory. It also displays the difficulty of reckoning with allegations of the misuse of power within a cloistered religious society.

In this famously unchurched city, Portlanders often turn a skeptical eye toward organized religion—except, it sometimes seems, for Buddhism. But Bhaskaran’s allegations against one of Oregon’s most revered Buddhists underscore a vulnerability that extends beyond any spiritual community to the fundamental imbalance of power that exists between a leader and a follower.

The college disputes Bhaskaran’s allegations.

“We strongly deny the allegations of violence and abuse,” the college said, “and also have great concern for the complainant.”


Maitripa College is part of a network of Buddhist centers and institutions that fall under the umbrella of an organization called the Foundation for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition, or the FPMT, which oversees 132 centers and other affiliates around the world to further this sect of Tibetan Buddhism, the world’s largest. The FPMT is headquartered in the same Southeast Portland building.

Maitripa College wrote to its students and staff in an April 24 email that Yangsi Rinpoche was on leave pending an investigation by the FPMT into Bhaskaran’s allegations.

“We regret that the matter has escalated,” the college wrote in the email.


Maitripa College is an insular place. Richly colored wall tapestries called thankgas line the walls of the main prayer room. Practitioners sit on maroon floor cushions. People there speak gently and with great earnestness.

The college is small: 15 staff and anywhere from 35 to 50 students. Though Maitripa is registered for tax purposes as an educational institution and nonprofit, it also doubles as a religious institution, and former students say it operates more as a spiritual center. At its heart was Yangsi Rinpoche, 58.

Standing above 6 feet, Yangsi Rinpoche—Maitripa’s longtime president and professor of Buddhist studies—led teachings and prayers in a low, slow voice. The whole college was oriented toward him as its guru, former students say, and his teachings often centered on guru devotion.

“Maitripa heavily emphasizes this tantric practice, that your relationship with your guru is the most important part of the practice,” says a former Maitripa student, Dr. Jacob Lindsley, who attended the college from 2012 to 2020. “You have to see that person as pure and enlightened, such that everything they do and say is perfect and vital.”

In 1975, at age 6, Yangsi Rinpoche, whose legal name is Kesang Tuladhar, was deemed the reincarnate of a famous Tibetan scholar. Grainy film from his ceremony 50 years ago shows a small boy dressed in maroon robes being led into a monastery in Kathmandu by monks. He’s lifted onto a throne by his armpits. Monks hand him white scarves one at a time, which he touches to his forehead. A man lifts the boy off the chair and holds his hand as they follow a procession of monks playing long horns.


Yangsi Rinpoche worked as a monk in Asia until he moved to the States to teach in 1998. He landed at a monastery in Madison, Wis. He wore richly colored saffron and maroon robes. His personal assistant was a nun named Miranda Adams, who went by “Namdrol.”

Yangsi Rinpoche “disrobed,” which means to put aside a monastic calling for more worldly pursuits, in 2004 and moved to Portland. Adams followed him shortly thereafter. They co-founded Maitripa College with several others in 2005 and purchased a home together in the Pleasant Valley neighborhood of East Portland in 2007. (Adams’ husband lives there, too, and he also works at Maitripa.)

Former students of Maitripa say Yangsi Rinpoche always had a close inner circle of staff and devoted students. They would go to his home for meals. Adams largely controlled who spent time with him, they say—and he routinely had a handful of women that were among his most devoted acolytes.

“It wasn’t unusual to see women trying to get close to him,” Lindsley says.

Former students say they often performed free labor for Rinpoche. They would cook meals, clean his house, and sometimes take his young son on outings. (The mother of the boy appears to no longer live in Portland. She and Yangsi Rinpoche divorced in 2017—she was 27 at the time, and he was 49.) It was not uncommon for a Maitripa practitioner, student or staffer to serve unofficially as Rinpoche’s driver.

“I remember at one point Namdrol asked if we would weed their lawn,” recalls Elena Alfaro, who was a longtime devotee of Yangsi Rinpoche’s until she left Maitripa in 2018. “At the time, it was like, ‘Oh, wow, this is an opportunity to gather merit or good karma and serve my holy teacher.’”

A former student who asked to remain anonymous said “there was pressure from the staff and Rinpoche to do what Rinpoche wanted—anything he wanted from students, they should do.”


Sunitha Bhaskaran moved from India to the United States when she was 27 to pursue a master’s degree in computer science. By 2013, Bhaskaran had been working as an engineer in the Bay Area for six years. She started exploring Buddhism and was drawn to its teachings of the bodhisattva—someone who seeks enlightenment to alleviate the suffering of others.

She moved to Portland that year to study full time at Maitripa. “I gave up my job. I had about $50,000 in my bank,” Bhaskaran, now 53, tells WW. “I packed up, put whatever I could put in a Jetta, and drove up.” 

She first enrolled as a student at Maitripa and then worked at the college for the next eight years, including as bookkeeper, teacher’s assistant, and then library assistant. 

“She was such a purehearted person who really wanted to be a Buddhist,” Lindsley recalls. “She was extremely devoted and very agreeable.”

In her draft complaint, Bhaskaran alleges Yangsi Rinpoche had his first sexual contact with her in 2015, when he brought her a small figurine to her apartment. “[He] touched his penis to Plaintiff’s genitals over clothing and told her, ‘we will engage,’” the complaint states.

“He would describe himself as her Guru, talk about her devotion to him, and express his love to her. He began to visit her at her home, lay his body on hers with clothes on, rub his body against hers, and kiss her,” the complaint alleges. “The conduct progressed to removing clothing and sexual penetration with his penis in Plaintiff’s vagina and anus. During these sexual encounters, Defendant Tuladhar would often encourage Plaintiff by making statements and expressing sentiments such as, ‘you are doing something holy for me,’ and ‘you are offering me a service.’”

The unfiled complaint alleges Yangsi Rinpoche would tell Bhaskaran that the sex was a “tantric practice of Tibetan Buddhism in which he was purifying” her, and the complaint alleges he “presented the sexual contact as mandatory and expected.”

The complaint—which is not a criminal complaint but instead contains civil allegations of sexual battery—alleges Yangsi Rinpoche was often violent toward Bhaskaran during sex, including “violently biting and pushing Plaintiff’s chest and abdomen while also penetrating [her].” Bhaskaran “often found the sexual conduct to be disturbing and painful, and at times Defendant Tuladhar’s conduct would cause her body to bruise and bleed,” the complaint states.

Bhaskaran also alleges in the complaint she essentially served as Yangsi Rinpoche’s maid. She would cook Indian food for him, care for his young son, and drive him around. During some of this time, she was also his teaching assistant, grading assignments and writing class handouts.

Her complaint alleges that “based on the broad power and authority defendant Maitripa had given to Tuladhar, and the culture of obedience and servitude cultivated by Maitripa, Maitripa fell below the applicable standard of care, was negligent, and unreasonably created a foreseeable risk of harm to students and employees.”

In a two-hour interview with WW, Bhaskaran described the evolution of the relationship. She also shared text messages and logs of phone calls between her and Yangsi Rinpoche over the years, and dozens of emails between her and college leaders. Much of what she says aligns with the allegations in her threatened 2025 complaint, but what she described to WW was, in some ways, more complicated. 


During those five years, Bhaskaran says she grew close to Yangsi Rinpoche’s youngest child, a boy who’s now 12. She says that while she watched him on outings, Yangsi Rinpoche would often be talking on his phone, leaving her to care for the child. The frequency of the sex ebbed and flowed. She concedes she was confused and hurt when she suspected he was sleeping with other women.

“It was study, practice, cook for Rinpoche, then come home and have this thing. It’s not something that I resisted really actively because I felt it was my life,” Bhaskaran tells WW.

“I was at the bottom of the hierarchy [at the college],” Bhaskaran adds. “And I’m realizing this teacher, he is one thing in front of you, but he’s like another person behind [closed doors].”

Bhaskaran says it took her years after the relationship ended to define what she believes she experienced: an unwanted sexual relationship that because of Yangsi Rinpoche’s powerful position, she had no choice but to acquiesce to.


Bhaskaran first brought her allegations to Miranda Adams. In a string of distressed emails in the early morning of Aug. 10, 2021, Bhaskaran told Adams about her and Yangsi Rinpoche’s yearslong relationship.

“I will categorically say that I have felt emotionally abused and disrespected,” Bhaskaran wrote. “The sexual relation was often painful, bordering on abuse. and I feel a spiritual leader who speaks about Dharma has to be held accountable…Please help me here.” Just minutes later, she wrote she had “emotional and physical scars from my time with Rinpoche.”

Adams responded that same morning that she was “very sad to hear that you have been hurt.”

“Please rest assured that I have not and never will do anything to ‘cover this up,’ and I will do anything I can to help and support you,” Adams wrote. “We have a zero tolerance policy for harm of any kind at Maitripa.” 

The board hired a third-party investigator, a now-retired lawyer named Carol Merchasin, to investigate whether Yangsi Rinpoche violated the college’s consensual relationship policy. During her tenure at the law firm McAllister Olivarius, Merchasin represented victims of what the firm calls “high-control, male-dominated religious groups and gurus”; for years, Merchasin led the firm’s ongoing lawsuit against the Shen Yun dance company. 


While Maitripa has declined to give Merchasin’s full report to WW and Bhaskaran, the college did provide what it called an “executive summary” that the board wrote after the 2021 investigation.

According to the summary, Merchasin’s investigation concluded there had been an “undisclosed intimate, sexual relationship, a violation of Maitripa College consensual relationship policy,” though the memo noted that Yangsi Rinpoche “categorically denied that a sexual relationship had taken place.”

“The investigative team is confident that, in this situation, there was and is no intention to harm on the part of any party, and that all individuals are engaged with finding a peaceable, restorative, and beneficial resolution to this matter,” Maitripa’s board wrote in its summary.

Two board members, Mark Waller and Jose Cabezon, took the lead and spoke to Bhaskaran about what forgiveness might look like following Merchasin’s investigation—at one point, Yangsi Rinpoche requested that he and Bhaskaran partake in a Buddhist confession ceremony. (Bhaskaran says she declined.)

In March 2022, Bhaskaran sent an email to Waller and Cabezon saying she had let the matter go. “I don’t want to bear the burden of breaking some practitioner’s heart or cause someone to lose faith in the Dharma or the lineage. Neither do I want to embarrass the Tibetan community, the great monastic institutions or Rinpoche’s teachers and family,” Bhaskaran wrote.

In a final Zoom call among Bhaskaran, Yangsi Rinpoche, and Waller, Bhaskaran tells WW she told Yangsi Rinpoche he had “really wrecked my life.”

Leading up to that call, Bhaskaran says, she received more than five calls from Cabezon and Waller, asking that the matter be resolved swiftly. 

“I feel they pressured me into forgiveness,” Bhaskaran now tells WW.

Waller disputes Bhaskaran’s characterization. “There was certainly no pressure,” he said in a text to WW.

Bhaskaran continued working at the college in various capacities following the 2021 investigation, mostly remotely.

She joined a sexual assault survivors’ group in 2024 and decided to take action.

She retained lawyers Amber Kinney and Whitney Stark, who emailed the board of Maitripa the draft complaint on April 9, 2025. Maitripa College and Bhaskaran reached a confidential settlement in October 2025.


In March, the Foundation for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition suspended Yangsi Rinpoche from teaching at all of its affiliated centers.

The organization did so after Bhaskaran and Elena Alfaro, another former student, filed a formal complaint with the FPMT in January. Alfaro alleged to the foundation that, first in 2017 and again in 2020, Yangsi Rinpoche slept with at least one former Maitripa student.

Documentation provided by Alfaro shows that when she sent a letter expressing concerns about Yangsi Rinpoche in 2016 to then-FPMT president Lama Zopa Rinpoche, he warned that Alfaro would endure spiritual torment if she even thought ill of her guru.

“If you get angry, arise heresy towards your Guru…one has to be born in the hell, suffering the most heavy suffering of samsara,” he wrote back in a March 2017 email. “Make this your principal meditation, otherwise you will destroy your life totally.” 

A former board member, Lynn Ogden, wrote in an email to Bhaskaran and Alfaro in May that she had left Maitripa College in 2019, when the FPMT faced allegations of sexual assault against a Buddhist teacher named Dagri Rinpoche. (Bhaskaran’s allegations are not the first leveled against FPMT-affiliated teachers and monks. Read more here.)

“Whether intuitively or based on my observations of Yangsi Rinpoche during [His Holiness the Dalai Llama’s] visit in 2013 and earlier reports, I felt as a Board member that Maitripa might be targeted or investigated,” Ogden wrote. “I asked in subsequent board meetings around this time that they address all related complaints or inappropriate behavior at the college. Namdrol showed documents and how Maitripa had a policy in place. I did not feel that it was handled with any diligence or concern.”

Ogden declined to elaborate when reached by WW.

On March 18, the chair of the FPMT board, Karuna Cayton, told Alfaro and Bhaskaran that the college had suspended Yangsi Rinpoche from teaching at all of its affiliated centers due to the “serious nature of the allegations” and would be hiring a third party to investigate the claims while also conducting its own internal investigation.

Notably, the FPMT’s headquarters were lodged for years in Maitripa’s building—which the two groups co-own—until the FPMT began working remotely a few years ago. The memberships of the two boards have historically had some level of crossover, as have the organizations themselves.

The FPMT has repeatedly declined to provide further details about the investigation to WW.

On April 24, Maitripa sent an email to its staff, alumni and students about “disturbing allegations” made against Yangsi Rinpoche by an unnamed former student. The college wrote that it “firmly [denies] the allegations” and is “cooperating openly and without reservation” with the FPMT’s investigation. Yangsi Rinpoche was on leave, Maitripa wrote.

One of the two other Buddhist centers where Yangsi Rinpoche serves as spiritual director, in Puerto Rico, announced in an April 18 email that he would “cease to exercise his functions” at the center.

Maitripa declined to make Yangsi Rinpoche and Adams available for an interview, but it has repeatedly denied the truth of Bhaskaran’s allegations.

The college won’t say whether Yangsi Rinpoche is on paid or unpaid leave, and it also declined to confirm basic facts of his biography; the college also told WW it had concluded that Yangsi Rinpoche hasn’t “acted with negligence nor violated our stringent ethical codes of conduct.” Adams is currently listed as the president and chief academic officer of Maitripa.

Current board members WW reached by phone or text declined to comment. Board member Mark Waller told WW he doesn’t believe Bhaskaran’s allegations because “they are way out of character of the man I know.” Board member Scott South said: “If you want to destroy an institution that’s an all-female-run institution that’s trying to do good for the betterment of humanity, fine.”

Bhaskaran, for her part, says she wants to move on.

“I worried about defaming Buddhism. But I have come to believe that bringing it to light helps Buddhism. It doesn’t defame,” Bhaskaran says. “The Dalai Lama has said, ‘Buddhism has survived for 2,500 years. You don’t have to worry.’ So I have changed with time.“

To accompany this story, WW has reported about other issues that confront the Foundation for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition. Read more. 



Tuesday, September 2, 2025

Tenzin, 32, their only son, was charged by London police with possessing child pornography and killed himself a day later.

M.D SEX SCANDAL: Porn doc's parents fled Tibet home
They encouraged their children to find careers to help others.
Kelly Pedro, Crime Reporter
The London Free Press
2004-07-23


"Pencho and Tsering (Rabgey), they've been the backbone of the Tibetan community in Lindsay. They're just a great family." Max Radiff, family friend

Almost 45 years ago, they fled their homeland of Tibet, running from the Chinese army to safety in India.
The story of Dr. Tenzin Rabgey's parents -- Pencho and Tsering Rabgey -- is one of a harrowing escape from the only home they knew to an inspiring new life in Canada where they encouraged their three children to find careers in which they could help others.

Their lives reached tragic lows last month when Tenzin, 32, their only son, was charged by London police with possessing child pornography and killed himself a day later.

On Wednesday, police revealed the computers they seized from the young physician's downtown apartment contained hundreds of thousands of child porn images.

Police also found two photos of the anesthesiologist inappropriately touching a city woman during surgery at the London Health Sciences Centre a year ago.

It has left close family friends and Rabgey's colleagues in disbelief.

Friends of the Rabgey family said Pencho and Tsering Rabgey fled Tibet in 1959 as the Chinese army invaded.

At the time, Pencho Rabgey, a monk, acted as a bodyguard to the Dalai Lama, Tibet's spiritual and political leader.

Pencho Rabgey told the Globe and Mail in 1997 he had studied as a monk for 20 years in Tibet. The article, focusing on Canadian Tibetans who were extras on the set of the Hollywood film Seven Years in Tibet, recounted Pencho and Tsering's nine-day escape to India.

Once safe in India, Pencho Rabgey met and married Tsering, who fled Tibet in 1960. Their daughters, Losang and Tashi, were born in a refugee settlement.

In 1971, Canada began accepting Tibetan refugees and the family moved to Montreal, where Tenzin was born. But they discovered a Tibetan community was just beginning to take root in Lindsay and settled there.

In Lindsay, Pencho and Tsering were factory workers, said Dr. Rakesh Bhandari, a former teacher and friend who knew Tenzin for about 10 years.

The family had little money, he said, and bought an abandoned house, which they worked hard to renovate.

More than 30 years later, they are one of the community's most important families, said Max Radiff, a close family friend and former Lindsay mayor.

"Pencho and Tsering, they've been the backbone of the Tibetan community in Lindsay," he said yesterday.

"They're just a great family. I've always been proud to know them and to be associated with them."

As one of the first Tibetan families in Canada, the Rabgeys founded the Potala Tibetan Dance Troupe in 1975. The troupe travels Canada and the northeastern U.S. performing traditional Tibetan dances.

In 1987, the family returned to Chungba, the isolated Tibetan village in the southeastern province of Kham that Pencho Rabgey used to call home. The Rabgeys set up the Shenpen Fund, a non-governmental organization that, according to its website, provides bare necessities to communities in Tibet. Shenpen helped build the Chungba primary school that teaches literacy skills and provides meals and clothes to more than 200 children. It was the first functioning school in the remote mountainous area.

The Rabgeys spend enormous amounts of time fundraising for the school, Radiff said. They oversaw its construction and constantly raise funds on its behalf.

"Their whole life is dedicated to serving the people in Tibet," Bhandari said.

"They're doing selfless work. They basically sacrificed their own personal fortunes to look after people that are less fortunate than them."

Education has been a foundation the Rabgeys always worked hard to promote.

Pencho Rabgey, a Tibetan scholar, regularly returns to a monastery in northern India to teach and learn, said Radiff.

He is also a founder of a school of Tibetan monks in northern India, where many exiled Tibetans live.

"They're always going back to India to help out the Tibetan community," Radiff said.

The family's emphasis on education appears to have rubbed off on their children.

Losang, a Commonwealth scholar, was the first Tibetan woman in the west to obtain an advanced degree. Tashi was a Rhodes scholar who attended Oxford University and still studies at Harvard. Tenzin was a Canada scholar with an undergraduate degree from the University of Waterloo. He graduated from the University of Western Ontario's medical school in 1997. He specialized in anesthesiology and worked at all three London Health Sciences Centre campuses.

Colleagues recalled his sunny disposition, caring and hard work.

The young doctor had not only travelled to Tibet with his family, but also to Honduras to do charity work. That trip was with a group of local doctors and nurses still struggling to understand how a man they admired could later be charged with child pornography and eventually commit suicide.

Without Tenzin here to explain, friends say they're left without answers.






Copyright © The London Free Press 2001, 2002, 2003

Wednesday, January 15, 2025

THE KHYENTSE FOUNDATION’S SHODDY AND UNETHICAL TREATMENT OF A FEMALE SURVIVOR AND DHARMA TRANSLATOR

 https://dakinitranslations.com/2023/08/09/update-the-khyentse-foundations-shoddy-and-unethical-treatment-of-female-survivor-new-information-regarding-the-unethical-unfair-and-unprofessional-treatment-by-the-khyentse-foundation/

THE KHYENTSE FOUNDATION’S SHODDY AND UNETHICAL TREATMENT OF A FEMALE SURVIVOR AND DHARMA TRANSLATOR. New information sets a dangerous precedent regarding the unethical, unfair and unprofessional treatment by the Khyentse Foundation of a scholar-translator who is also a survivor and whistleblower of lama misconduct

‘“Anyone who harms a translator is also injuring the teachings in general.” –Vimalamitra.

In July 2020, I wrote about how the Khyentse Foundation (KF) awarded me the Ashoka Grant for a second year running but then soon after, immediately, without checking anything with me verbally or personally, withdrew their award.

The reason for this withdrawal was due to an email that Lynn Hoberg (an administrator of the KF) told me had been sent to them by a European woman, Carina Kramer-Bleicher of the executive board of Benchen Phuntsog Ling in Belgium, falsely and/or misleadingly stating that I did not have permission to translate or publish texts authored by Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche. The email was clearly sent as a retaliation and punishment for my complaining privately to Benchen (and others) in September 2019 about Sangye Nyenpa’s sexual misconduct, harassment and dishonesty in relation to myself (and other women he met at Dharma teachings over many years). Carina never wrote to me beforehand stating this. 

I responded to Lynn Hoberg of KF to protest their unfair and unprofessional decision to withdraw the funding by sending them:

  • Several voice and written Wechat messages Sangye Nyenpa sent to me clearly stating he had given me permission and one-to-one  in person transmission of these texts.
  • Voice messages from Sangye Nyenpa informing me that he had contacted Lama Rinczen in Poland to tell him (and a Polish student, Tomek) that I had the requisite permission from him.
  • Part of a recording I had taken of over ten hours one-to-one meetings with Sangye Nyenpa at Benchen monasteries in Nepal getting the transmission and explanation of the texts, of which there were several monastic witnesses. These recordings were done with his permission.

However, KF completely ignored this evidence and my own testimony, (and Lynn also refused to send me the email or the email address it had come from, even though it was about me). And thus based their decision to withdraw the funding on the basis of one unverified email, alleged to be from a woman managing a Benchen centre in Europe. Moreover, it sets a dangerous precedent in that anyone could write to KF claiming to be someone else and damage their reputation and funding, as KF will not (and do not) verify the authenticity of it. KF did not even check with the author of the texts to get his opinion on it. 

Also, even if the email were from Carina, she does not own the rights to Sangye Nyenpa’s texts at all and neither do Benchen Phuntsog Ling (based in Europe). KF should have also verified the contents of the email with Sangye Nyenpa himself, the author.

New information: Carina Kramer-Bleicher verbally denies having sent KF an email
Lynn Hoberg, Administration Director of the Khyentse Foundation who refused to consider any other evidence about the case, and based the withdrawal of the Ashoka Grant on one (unverified) email. Photo from Khyentse Foundation website.

This was unprofessional and unfair in itself, yet it gets worse, this week a person I know based in Europe told me  they had verbally asked Carina in person if she had written that email to KF, and also why she had not investigated the case lodged against Sangye Nyenpa. She told them that she had not written an email to KF (or could not re-collect doing so) and did not care about any allegations by women as they were doing it to ‘get attention’. Sadly, many women in the Buddha Dharma take this attitude towards their Buddhist sisters.

So, there are two further issues with this new information that need saying, either:

  1. Carina is lying that she did not write to KF, or
  2. Someone impersonated her in that email.

 Yesterday, I wrote again to Lynn Hoberg at the KF and informed her of this latest information and asked her if KF had ever checked that the email was authentic and had come from Carina or from Benchen.

Lynn’s response was:

“I received an email from the address bpl.management@benchen.org signed by Carina Krämer-Bleicher, Chairperson. I have no reason to believe this was from an imposter.” and

“I feel confident that the person who wrote to me about owning the rights to the work you wished to translate was legitimate. “

There was no apology or offer to check it was authentic. I can understand that people generally don’t think emails are fraudulent or impersonators, however, as my Ashoka Grant was hastily and immediately withdrawn by KF based on this single email alone, it is unprofessional, unfair and negligent that the KF did not even check its veracity and authenticity beforehand, and still refuse to do so considering the alleged author is telling others she did not write it (or cannot recollect doing so). 

Carina Kramer-Bleicher, President of Benchen Phuntsog Ling who wrote a false and misleading email to Khyentse Foundation that led them to immediately withdraw funding award (although she denied sending it when asked about it). Photo from Interview in 2022 https://brf.be/regional/1601334/

Since that time, I have never received any further funding from KF and worse, this ‘Carina/Benchen’ email caused serious damage to my name, reputation and chances of work and funding opportunities with the KF and other KF-supported organisations and individuals. For example, the Director of the Khyentse Vision project, Dolma Gunther (the white Australian sister-in-law of Jigme Khyentse Rinpoche who is not a recognised scholar or translator in the field), whom I have never met or spoken to, despite initially being very enthusiastic about my joining and raving about my website, work and despite my qualifications and prior work on Jamyang Khyentse, subsequently shunned  and blacklisted me from work as a translator on the project,  because when asked for the reason, she responded in an email, ‘You are toxic’. She explained her change of mind was something she had learnt from ‘anonymous’ advisors on the project. Hardly the Buddhist way is it? Nepotism and demonising Dharma translators one has never met or spoken to. Have to laugh or might cry!

On taking legal advice in 2020 on this case, I was told that I could sue Khyentse Foundation and Benchen centres for loss and damages caused by their defamatory, slanderous and misleading actions. With this new information, I could now add to that negligence in terms of checking the source of this Benchen originated email and information.

I have not yet taken that step because it is very costly, time-consuming and no guarantee of a positive outcome. Thus, I think it is in the public interest to expose this case here and to demand proper answers and investigations conducted by objective people in relation to the KF’s actions, and the conduct of Sangye Nyenpa himself and his enablers.

Truth is stranger than fiction. For example, is it a mere coincidence that both SN and Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse Rinpoche are both Bhutanese? Perhaps the haste with which KF made such a harmful decision on one unverified email, without checking anything properly, or listening to my testimony and evidence, says it all. 

Zero response from Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche and hostile and inappropriate response from his assistant
No response from Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche when he was reached out to regarding the withdrawal of funding and the various allegations by women against Sangye Nyenpa.

In addition, I also reached out to Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche in 2020, and was met with a barrage of hostile verbal accusations and interrogation by Tashi Colman, DJKR’s assistant, who should have just forwarded my message to DJKR without comment. Tashi also totally breached my trust by forwarding my confidential emails about the case to staff in KF without my permission. Eventually he sent my message and a small portion of evidence to DJKR but I received ZERO response, other than Tashi telling me that it had been received. Where is the love, bodhicitta and compassion in that?

Concerns about Khyentse Foundation and academic independence

Although, it is excellent that Dharma translators and scholars are funded and supported, as a result of this case (and others), there is legitimate concern about the ‘takeover’ of the independence of academia and Dharma translation by KF via extensive funding and training programmes. What if the applicant is a survivor of lama misconduct like myself? What if the applicant does not follow (or even like) DJKR? These are also questions that the Dharma community and academia need to be asking themselves. One of the reasons I think I did not get much support from fellow academics on this topic was due to their having funding and support from the KF. Although that is understandable, the issue is this, in order to keep KF funding they may feel they cannot support or be associated with survivors and people like myself, or with anyone who does not support and is critical of DJKR too. That is not a healthy situation for freedom of intellectual research and opinion. Their motto is ‘Buddha’s Wisdom For Everyone’, really? Maybe only if you are not a female survivor and whistleblower on lama misconduct and abuse.

Sangye Nyenpa and Benchen centre enablers
Sangye Nyenpa Rinpoche giving the Rinchen Terdzo transmission at Rumtek Monastery, Sikkim with young, male Kagyu tulkus, Bokar Rinpoche and Tenga Rinpoche present

The Sangye Nyenpa case and allegations have never been investigated by Benchen staff,  and SN has never been questioned or brought to account for his actions not just towards me but other women. Worse, I faced a nasty online campaign of bullying, slander, impersonation and intimidation by some of SN’s family members and ‘anonymous’ enablers on Facebook and via email.  The fact, that these same people act as if nothing happened publicly, and he is now giving the Rinchen Terdzo transmission at Rumtek Monastery  is not in accordance with general norms on justice, ethics and accountability in ordinary affairs, never mind that of a Buddhist teacher and Buddhist ethics.  Worse still, several young male Kagyu tulkus are taking that transmission from him with the risk that they may also pick up these sexist and misogynist attitudes from him. More on that in another post!

For now, here is the official (and they say only) letter that a letter signed by Tempa Lama of Benchen Monastery Nepal in response to my private complaint about the conduct of Sangye Nyenpa to his family members and Benchen in late 2019, and my also informing them of the withdrawal of the Ashoka Grant by KF, after Carina of Benchen Europe had (allegedly) written to KF.

In the letter, Tempa Lama falsely claims (without any objective investigation) that the allegations about SN are ‘groundless’ (tell that to all the other women too), and that I am ‘discriminating against Buddhism in general’ (have no idea what that means!), do not ‘deserve any place’ at their centres (I didn’t say I did), and have no right to any resolution or investigation.

Conclusion

To conclude, some may think all this is ‘trivial’ in the big scope of worldly things on this planet, and they would be right. However, anything unethical connected to Buddha Dharma  activities negatively affects infinite sentient beings in samsara. So, although KF do support Dharma translations activities, I hope that the KF now check the veracity of that ‘Carina email’ and issue an immediate apology and compensation if they discover that Carina did not write it. In any case, I hope that my writing and exposure of this, helps to ‘clean it up’ and ensure that others do not get harmed in similar ways.   Dedicated to all the survivors and whistleblowers. May the Earth and Buddha be my witness and may truth, compassion, love and wisdom prevail! 

Music? Keeping the heart, soul and wisdom present with Break My Soul by Beyonce, You Gotta Be by Desree,  I’m Still Standing by Elton John and Shake It Off  by Taylor Swift.

Written by Adele Tomlin, 9th August 2023.

Postscript

Even more fishy double standards, after my complaint about SN in 2019, Benchen monastery Nepal rushed through a publication of a translation of the same text I had been working for several months on with SN, by David Molk. Molk told me in email correspondence about it that he had translated the text in 2011, that Benchen had never responded to him when he sent it to them, and that he had never even met, worked with or got the oral transmission of that text from SN! So Benchen would rather publish something by a man who has no scholarly background in translation, and ZERO connection or transmission of the text with the author, than by someone who does! Anyone smell a rotten, sexist, survivor-punishing fish?