An archive of articles and testimonials about abuses in Tibetan 'Buddhism'.
Wednesday, February 5, 2020
Tuesday, February 4, 2020
Monday, February 3, 2020
"New Religious Movements dangers" - From Ruth Lavender Friday, 31 January 2020
http://www.hebdenbridge.co.uk/forum/2020/006.html
ew Religious Movements dangers
From Ruth Lavender
Friday, 31 January 2020
Hebden Bridge naturally attracts a lot of alternative groups and NRMs. I am posting to recommend to everyone that you check carefully what you may be joining. I have seen several “Buddhist” NRMs advertising classes in Hebden Bridge and Todmorden, as well as other groups, often offering what seem to be innocuous meditation classes. Some of these groups are known to have caused a lot of harm in the past, and a lot of them still do - ranging from financial pressures (increasing pressure to make larger donations, take expensive retreats abroad costing thousands of pounds, or to loan money that the organisation then pressures you to count as a donation for the sake of your spiritual progress) through to psychological abuses and even sexual abuses. Sometimes people are pressured into donating laptops, cars, even their house.
I’m not here to name groups, though I could name a few. I would instead advise that everyone should thoroughly check out any group they are considering getting more deeply involved with. Generally they start out as weekly drop in sessions or say a six week course of weekly sessions, and then you are invited to more intense and often more expensive “deeper” or “higher” teachings and courses. Attending weekly low key sessions is usually harmless enough, and may even be beneficial in the short term, but there is often pressure to take it further, at a cost.
These days information is so freely available; just do a few web searches and check it out for yourself. Try searches like "name of group" plus words like “controversy”, “abuse”, “survivors” and “cult”. You could also do searches with "name of organisation leader" and those terms.
In particular be careful with teachers who won’t answer your questions about such controversies, or who say that everything negative said about them online is down to “a few disgruntled ex-members”. If their ex-members are so “disgruntled” there are probably good reasons.
I’m not here to name groups, though I could name a few. I would instead advise that everyone should thoroughly check out any group they are considering getting more deeply involved with. Generally they start out as weekly drop in sessions or say a six week course of weekly sessions, and then you are invited to more intense and often more expensive “deeper” or “higher” teachings and courses. Attending weekly low key sessions is usually harmless enough, and may even be beneficial in the short term, but there is often pressure to take it further, at a cost.
These days information is so freely available; just do a few web searches and check it out for yourself. Try searches like "name of group" plus words like “controversy”, “abuse”, “survivors” and “cult”. You could also do searches with "name of organisation leader" and those terms.
In particular be careful with teachers who won’t answer your questions about such controversies, or who say that everything negative said about them online is down to “a few disgruntled ex-members”. If their ex-members are so “disgruntled” there are probably good reasons.
Sunday, January 5, 2020
Prominent Tibetan lama - Dagri rinpoche - accused of molestation by three women
https://www.lionsroar.com/prominent-tibetan-lama-accused-of-molestation-by-two-women/
Two women have accused Tibetan Buddhist teacher Dagri Rinpoche, 65, of molestation, reports the Tibet Sun. One incident allegedly occurred in 2008, and the other earlier this month.
Two women have accused Tibetan Buddhist teacher Dagri Rinpoche, 65, of molestation, reports the Tibet Sun. One incident allegedly occurred in 2008, and the other earlier this month.
Update May 14, 2019: According to the Tibet Sun, Dagri has denied allegations of wrongdoing. On Facebook, a third woman has accused him of molestation. She says Dagri grabbed her breast when she was a student at the College for Higher Tibetan Studies in Dharamsala, India, between 2005 and 2009.
Update May 15, 2019: FPMT has suspended Dagri Rinpoche from teaching until a police investigation is complete, according to a statement from the organization. In a separate statement, FPMT co-founder Lama Zopa Rinpoche says that “Dagri Rinpoche is a very positive, holy being—definitely not an ordinary person.”
Update May 22, 2019: Valdivia has posted a public response to Dagri and FPMT. In her response, Valdivia addresses Dagri’s claim that she had “mental problems,” writing “He is trying to say that I am crazy… Instead of apologising he’s blaming and discrediting the victims.” She also writes that, “After all this, none of us have even received a single apology or acknowledgement of wrongdoing from Dagri R… All that me and other nuns and friends who supported us have received is blame, shame, threats and slander.”
Dagri is recognized as the reincarnation of Pari Dorje Chang, who was a teacher of Lama Yeshe — cofounder of the Friends for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition (FPMT). Dagri travels for the FPMT and is an advisor for Sravasti Abbey in Washington State. According to a biography on the FPMT website, Dagri is “particularly close” to the Dalai Lama and Lama Zopa Rinpoche.
On May 3, on a flight from Delhi to Kangra Airport, Dagri Rinpoche allegedly molested a woman, as reported on the Hindi website Amarujala. The woman reported the incident to the police, and Dagri was taken into custody for questioning.
On May 7, Spanish woman Jakaira Perez Valdivia, 34, posted a video to YouTube in which she alleges that Dagri molested her in 2008. Valdivia says she went to see Dagri because she had a disk hernia and had been told Dagri could help. “I was in a lot of pain,” she says in the video.
Dagri allegedly gave Valdivia strong alcohol to drink, told her to take off her clothes, and then massaged her body, repeatedly trying to touch her breasts and pelvis, and pressed his penis against her. Valdivia says she told Dagri she was uncomfortable but he kept trying to fondle her.
Valdivia signed a sworn declaration about her experience with the local police and sent it to FPMT and the office of the Dalai Lama. The office of the Dalai Lama set up a meeting between Valdivia and Dagri, during which Dagri apologized. Valdivia says that, after the meeting, members of the community called her account into question. Dagri has continued to teach.
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